Intimacy of Touch: Couple's Tutorial Massage

A shared intimate interlude for lovers

A brief summary

The aim of the couple's tutorial is to help couples bring each other greater pleasure through increased intimacy. As I massage one partner, I explain to the observing partner what I am doing and why. The observing partner is welcome to join in if they wish and help to deliver a four handed massage. All of the techniques I use can be used to massage both males and females so both halves of the couple can use what they have learned to help please the other in the future.

In more detail

As a couple, has your relationship reached a point where you are considering involving others in the most intimate parts of your life?

If so, you are far from alone. Ethically non- monogamy (ENM) or the “monogamish” lifestyle is more common than you might think. Such an outlook can bring a blast of adrenaline and to any relationship and is often an indication that a couple has great communication, trust and love for each other.

Couples that explore intimately with others say that it both brings them closer together, and improves their sex life with one another. However, it is not without risk – the obvious ones being jealousy and a feeling of betrayal. This is why I believe it is essential that your relationship is rock solid before you embark on this sort of voyage. It’s not something to consider as a way of recuing an already fragile relationship. Open and honest communication is vital. If this is not possible or - most especially - if there are underlying issues in the relationship, I recommend avoiding as it is more likely to damage the relationship. Work on the issues in other ways and perhaps return to the idea at a later date.

The mind is the most powerful sex organ, so in the first instance, fantasies might be fulfilled by simply talking to each other about involving others and not acting on it at all. This can be very exciting. The next step might be to flirt – but no more - with others. For others, there is no substitute to for the real thing. Whatever you do, taking it slowly is a good idea. You can't rewind the clock and pretend that what actually happened didn’t occur. Talk to each other before and after anything you try to ensure both of you are happy. Be sure that either of you can say “No” if the situation doesn’t feel right without fear of reproach or recrimination.

For couples embarking on their voyage of erotic discovery, involving others can seem quite daunting and you may be unsure how and where to start. There are many sites, apps for liberated people to meet each other. There is a thriving club scene in the UK but again this can be a bit full on especially for a couple’s first experience.

A sensual couple’s massage at Intimacy of Touch is a potentially wonderful first step on this journey. I provide you with a safe, controlled and non-judgmentalenvironment that is all about you as a couple, your desires, your fantasies, with no one else’s agenda or needs to consider. You’re able to specify what you want and to set any boundaries in advance and remain in control at all times.

Sensual massage is more than simply a break from routine even for couples more experienced in alternative lifestyles and something different for more experienced couples. It's not just an erotic adventure, but an extremely relaxing and intimate experience.

Informed and freely-given consent is paramount at all times. This means that, while you may book any of my treatments for your partner, the person who will actually receive the treatment must complete a request form themselves. Because of its intimate nature, it would not be ethical for a sensual massage to be a surprise "on the day".

These are the common variations of couple’s massages that I offer at Intimacy of Touch. As always, these basic templates can be customised for your specific needs.

Cuckold Massage

Cuckolding is a common but complex fantasy, with many different feelings and emotions at play for all those involved. Both men and women can find the prospect appealing.

A cuckold massage at Intimacy of Touch allows your partner to watch you have a sensual massage. They may also join the massage at times. Some partners prefer to wait in an adjacent room or even go for a drive to return later.

Anyone visiting Intimacy of Touch for any massage treatment is welcome to bring their partner with them. There is no additional charge.

Sensual Couple’s Massage

If your partner would like to not only watch you have a sensual massage but experience it for themselves, this can be arranged. I work with a number of other therapists, both male and female, to offer sensual couples massage.

The massage can be based on any of my individual massage treatments, is shared and takes place at the same time in the same room.

Price and availability can be confirmed only after discussion with the other therapist. It is therefore important that you get in touch to discuss your requirements and have some flexibility about when you would like to receive your treatment.

Cuckold or Sensual Couples Tutorial Massage

Some of my clients choose to combine a Cuckold massage for her with some training and practice for him with a female volunteer. Volunteers are all previous clients who have received a massage from me.

All of the techniques I use can be used to massage both males and females so both halves of the couple can use what they have learned to help please the other in the future.

As with the Sensual Couple’s Massage, price and availability can be confirmed only after discussion with the other therapist. It is therefore important that you get in touch to discuss your requirements and have some flexibility about when you would like to receive your treatment.